The Old Testament tells the story of the prophet Elisha, who visited Shunem. There was a notable woman in that town that invited the prophet of God to eat with them and then convinced her husband that since he was a holy man that passed that way often, they should build him a little room to stay in when he came near. In return for their hospitality, Elisha granted her anything she wanted, which was a child, an offspring that she and her husband could never have. Through God’s gracious mercy she had that son, and the Bible tells us that when the boy was older, her was fatally hurt working in the field with the reapers. And then inspiration gives this exchange concerning her attitude toward his death in 2 Kings 4:20-26:
“When he had taken him and brought him to his mother, he sat on her knees till noon, and then died. And she went up and laid him on the bed of the man of God, shut the door upon him, and went out. Then she called to her husband, and said, “Please send me one of the young men and one of the donkeys, that I may run to the man of God and come back.” So he said, “Why are you going to him today? It is neither the New Moon nor the Sabbath.” And she said, “It is well.” Then she saddled a donkey, and said to her servant, “Drive, and go forward; do not slacken the pace for me unless I tell you.” And so she departed, and went to the man of God at Mount Carmel. So it was, when the man of God saw her afar off, that he said to his servant Gehazi, “Look, the Shunammite woman! Please run now to meet her, and say to her, ‘Is it well with you? Is it well with your husband? Is it well with the child?’ ” And she answered, “It is well.”
Another story is told, from our American history, about a wealthy lawyer and real estate investor in Chicago named Horatio Spafford. He and his wife had five children, with only one being a son. In 1871, they lost that son to scarlet fever and later in the year, lost a majority of their property to the great Chicago fire. In 1873, the family planned a trans-Atlantic voyage to Europe, however, Horatio sent his wife and four daughters ahead of him while he tended to business in Chicago. During the trip, the ship struck another vessel and sank, killing his four daughters and leaving his wife to send the message, “Saved alone.” On Horatio’s voyage to meet his wife Anna, his ship neared the place where his daughters died, and there he penned the hymn, It Is Well With My Soul:
When peace like a river attendeth my way
When sorrows like sea billows roll
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say
It is well, it is well with my soul
It is well (it is well)
With my soul (with my soul)
It is well, it is well with my soul
In November of 2010, my mother, Sandy Odom, was diagnosed with cancer on the tube that branches off into her lungs. She started chemotherapy, but after one round realized the stage four cancer was too advanced and so she stopped treatment. She would pass away the morning of February 23, 2011, at the age of 63. I thought about all the milestones that she would miss with our family, especially her three grandchildren. They were in middle school at the time, and she would not see them graduate high school, or college, or see them get married, and will not see her great-grandchildren someday. We held a memorial for her at the Reader Church of Christ on Sunday, February 27, 2011, in which one of her favorite hymns was sung, It Is Well With My Soul. All these years later, when that song is sung in the worship assembly, I tear up and think of my dear mother and thank God for the peace He gives me in my soul.
We all have those dark times that weigh on our souls. It is impossible to constantly be on the “mountaintop” of life. Even in the life of our Lord we see the highs and the lows. From the celebration of the wedding feast at Cana of Galilee (John 2) to the pain of facing the cross (John 17). From the multitudes that pressed closer to hear Him (Luke 8:42) to the four people that stood by the cross (John 19:25). Jesus truly was a man “of sorrows and acquainted with grief” (Isaiah 53:3). Take comfort in knowing that that in those dark times, it’s okay to feel that but understand that Jesus knows what you are feeling, let Him help you.
Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come
Let this blest assurance control
That Christ (yes, He has) has regarded my helpless estate
And has shed His own blood for my soul
It is well (it is well)
With my soul (with my soul)
It is well, it is well with my soul
In our anger we may lash out against God. I suppose the Shunammite woman, Mr. Spafford, and myself could have done that, but instead, we focus on what God has done for us and how He has never let us down. In times of sorrow and grief, it is foolish to add the anxiety of sin to your problems, sin against God for the hurt that Satan is responsible for bring into this world. In our times of grief, we should thank God for His peace and comfort.
My sin, oh the bliss of this glorious thought (a thought)
My sin, not in part, but the whole (every bit, every bit, all of it)
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more (yes)
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul
It is well (it is well)
With my soul (with my soul)
It is well, it is well with my soul
Singing, as the Scriptures indicate, is designed to teach, and admonish one another in the worship assembly (Ephesians 5:19; Colossians 3:16). However, it should be noted that those songs that are sung come from the heart, allowing the emotion of the worshipper to be expressed through the words, something the instrument cannot do. The inspired pen of James would write, “Is any among you cheerful? Let him sing psalms” (James 5:13). One could add all the emotions to that directive…are you sad? Sing! Are you angry? Sing! Are you depressed? Sing! Jesus is coming again one day…Sing!
And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend
Even so, it is well with my soul
It is well (it is well)
With my soul (with my soul)
It is well, it is well with my soul
In all three stories, from the prophet Elisha to Horatio Spafford to my own life, that song was associated with the prospect of death. How can we face such great tragedy and find peace within our souls? Barnabas Piper once wrote of this song:
“Heartbreak gives birth to great songs. Love lost, loved ones missed, and even tragedies elicit the emotions and that can best be expressed in the medium of music. These songs move listeners and stir up memories bringing about feelings of nostalgia or melancholy, that sort of sadness that leaves us feeling better. But how often do we encounter a song of worship and gratitude that was inspired by heartbreak? The classic hymn “It is Well with My Soul” is just such a song.”
Praise God for the hymns that touch our hearts and give us such comfort and joy through difficult times in our lives!